Monday, May 25, 2009

The Irony of friendship



















Salam sejahtera.

Kene tuka mood blog i balik. Jiwa racauan dah masuk kembali. Awan gelap menyelubungi blog i sudah.
*u awas cik sal, i bukan carut diri sendri ye! anyhow, black is beautiful. Ko puteh sangat kah sampai kene amik vitC ngan supplement glutathion sampai 3 bulan tu? ops.

Anyhow, not wanting to digress too much, back to my original content: -

Have u ever wonder how it feels to be the last person to know about something? or maybe the last person to be given the opportunity or the exclusivity towards any news or moments experienced by your love ones? be it friends, lover or family?

I know how it feels. I've experienced it. Not once but many times throughout my 27 and counting living years (yes, despite my mathematical-challenged about my own age, i got it right this time). I have always believe and will continue to believe that the whole reason for a person to have someone they called 'close-to' is when things are being shared together. sad, sorrow, happy or joy.

But when those moments were not shared with each other, how would someone justify the proximity that they have or had throughout years of them being together? Many would have claimed that they have known someone for so long but yet in reality knew so little about that someone at the same time.

Isn't it ironic? Don't you think?

4 comments:

izzu said...

u kenapa, blog konsep lara ni ?

mtf caras konsep blog i ?


i pun tak apply konsep lara recently, mrasala happy 24 jam dan stressed di kejar dateline, 24 jam

matilah tido jam 12, bgn jam 5 oagi...komited kerja kan

kalo i dh declare ngan sapa2, i bg tau u...tapi, i tatau nak declare ngan sapa sbb byk sgt pilihan dan by sgt i nak

i rasa...dlm ramai2 org...i citer semua benda yg i buat kat org...even smp org leh citer balik dan igt citer i, even tough i sendiri pun terlupa benda tu pernah berlaku, ley ?

u tuju kat nita ke ? kan, nita rahsia2 sgt psl cikki. mtf kan ? bukannya kita nak caras ke apa, just nak tau apa dan tumpang gembira sbb dia ada cikki

even, ramai geng2 kita ni...dh ada cikki2, diam2 je...ptt nyer, benda happy kenala share. tapi, rahsia sbb takut tak jadi la, takut tak kekal lama la...last2 kena hauk sajork...oops

i tak paham, konsep rahsia2, bila dah susah terngadah, dah breakup clash bagai, baru nak cr kawan2 balik

tgk cam i, mrasa buat trip jalan, bersama cikki dan kawan2 serentak...so, dpt balance dua2 skali, walaupun lps tu, cikki merajuk sbb, "abg suka buat plan mengejut, ajak dating..kuar ramai2"

matilah konsep, best friends no 1, cikki no 2

datin cik sal said...

ayo... mak kalau lagging sgts dpt berita... mak pp bimbo jahh... tak lah terasa sgts uols... jgn la sedey... bukan bermaksud uols paling last tu... uols di ketepikan.... maybe bila berita tuh dah sampai kat uol.. maknanya depa menantikan ultimate advise dari uols lew... hiks! mcm mak... mintak mak advise... mak carut je trus... oppss!

Ash Shinotsubaki said...

U summed up all my thoughts already izzu. Nothing much for me to add.

kesuma said...

Uols actually i dh taip panjang lebar nk reply kt u, tp i delete semua huhu

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