leceh la. why is it so difficult for other people to start moving on with their life? closing chapter is not that hard but opening a new one seems to be an impossible job for some.
its fine for me for people to reminisce, but leave it just at is. don't get too indulged in it that u started to think there might be a possibility of repeating those memories again.
some things are just meant to be history. for good.
revisiting those moments and using that to regain sympathy from the other party would not change a person's mind towards how it has ended. claiming that u have tried to move on but cant; as if the world is moving leaving u standing at the side watching means u haven't tried hard enough.
all u need is to try harder. stop comparing ur new encounter with what u used to have. u will always find the previous one better coz ur still stuck with the past. nobody is comparable to anyone. everybody has their own traits. unique to every person.
u just have to acknowledge the difference and begin to appreciate what ur having now. coz once it is gone, again, u will be left with nothing except regret.